I’m a free spirit.  My life fits in my backpack (unless I go on a short holiday, then I steal my boyfriend’s suitcase).  My life also fits in 2 or 3 draws and a box that is waiting for me with all my winter clothes and some fancy underwear.  Moving overseas had to involve a few sacrifices.

I’m not a fan of possessions… anymore.  The intense shopping sessions every weekend are over.  In fact, I feel guilty when I need to buy a new t-shirt or even a new bikini.  The time where my wardrobe was so big and quite compelling is dead.  Sad truth; I can live with a lack of fashion as I prefer to invest in my next flight ticket.

Am I a minimalist? I don’t even know the true meaning behind this. But, I do know a thing or two.  I can’t complain about my lifestyle. Although. I feel quite overwhelmed by it sometimes.


Between the blog, my freelance contracts and my travel plans, I lose my head at least once every hour.  See, the chicken running headless here; it’s me. Fortunately, every time I discover a new landscape, I’m more than happy to enjoy a temporary distraction.

Hang on Mel.  Are you saying that living abroad is overwhelming?

That living abroad isn’t always THE dream?

Kind of.

Is there anything I can do to cut the stress out of my life while I’m abroad?

Being organized could be a start.  Being a big compulsive planner could also be a thing.

Let me rephrase this; is there anything FUN I can do to make me appreciate my life abroad a little bit more?

Live Abroad - Wales RoadTrip

Discovering Wales, UK

Remember why you’re here and how it could be somewhere else (somewhere else like… you know; home).

Sorry Dad.  Every time I think of home, I kind of have this awful bitter taste in my mouth.  Normally, it’s followed by a disgusted face that lasts for at least five seconds.  I’ve been living/working/traveling abroad for nearly three years now, and somehow I had to deal with life.  Life isn’t always perfect and it comes with its lots of crappy minutes too.  *And here I am, remembering my glorious-not-so-glamorous days on a dairy farm in Australia.

When I think about my life from before, I can’t even recognize myself.  It feels like this life doesn’t belong to me anymore.

So here I am, feeling a bit more grateful for what I have and ready to handle these “PMS” kind of days.

Bring the spark back between you two.

Once upon a time, you fell in love with this place, with this new country.  You felt welcomed.  You were at your best, super energized with your sexy vibes ready for the biggest flirt of your life.  A few months later, you might have lost interest.  You might want to seek a new challenge, a new goal.  Perhaps, you feel a bit homesick, perhaps, you’re doubting yourself.  You know; you and your big (crazy) plans!

What’s your favorite food here?  Are you going to miss it when you’re gone? Do you know where’s the best restaurant in town?

Have you discovered the secret spots?  Did you enjoy a sunset?  When was the last time you were exploring your surroundings?  

Get out and explore!

It’s human to get into a routine, to forget or even to take something for granted.  Open up your mind!

Sometimes, you just need a hit (or another trip).

Perhaps, you simply reached the point where you should introduce yourself to the neighbors.  Have you discovered the cities/countries around you? You should make the most of the area while you’re there, shouldn’t you?

While I was in Asia, I surprised myself with missing my Australian comfort.  Like what, time apart can give you the fix you’re looking for.

Every time I leave the UK, I’m craving gravy and roast potatoes.  Okay, I know, this example sucks, but it’s true.  We miss the little things and these are the kind of things I also miss from home.  Food is comforting (or is it just me?).

Uluru - Australia Live Abroad

Road-Tripping in Australia

Make yourself at home.

Go get yourself some slippers.  Seriously, it will feel so homely.  Sometimes, it feels great to do the kind of things we’d normally do; like watching your favorite TV show or spending hours on Netflix.  

Make sure your bed is comfy enough and simply relax when you need to.

After all, you chose your home or at least the temporary one.

Moving overseas is a big decision. It can be so much fun, stressful or even very tiring!  Taking your backpack on another side of the globe means you’re about to drop your dreams in to another reality for a bit.

Be patient. Be loving.  Be tender.  Perhaps, it’s not as sexy as a love affair, but still, it’s extremely exotic!

Are you an expat?  A digital nomad?

PRO TIP: Put your stress aside and get your mail wherever you are.  These two services offered to United States citizens will help you enjoy a life abroad worry-free.

Sign up for US Global Mail now!

Your mail and packages could be forwarded to you!  There’s an online virtual mailbox that gives you images of all your mail and packages.  If you need anything scanned or forwarded to you, ask for it!  Otherwise, you can also leave your mail in great hands and it’s totally secure!  Signing up only takes 5 minutes!  

Sign up for US Delivered now!

All your packages could be forwarded to you and this means you can still shop online on your favorite US websites.  When your packages arrive, the warehouse staff will send you a picture of your box. Then, you can choose to open it or simply ship it to your current address.  All your orders will be sent into one box which makes it more convenient and more affordable.  This service is as low as $5 per month!

Final Thoughts

Before you go, make sure to check our packing list for moving abroad. There are lots of things to think about, so make no mistakes.

About Melissa Giroux

Melissa Giroux founded abrokenbackpack.com in 2015. She is been living abroad since 2014. Originally Canadian, she has been living and working online in many destinations around the world. She is passionate about traveling, technology, entrepreneurship, and CrossFit.

She has traveled extensively in Asia, Oceania, Europe, and North America. She is now living in Thailand.


☑ Book your flight: Who said you won’t be able to find cheap flights? My top saving tip is flexibility. If you're flexible, you should be able to find a cheaper flight. Check out Skyscanner or Google Flights for the hottest deals.

☑ Book your accommodation: Want the comfort of being at home or the luxury of a hotel? I love using Vrbo and Booking.com for those very reasons. If you're a solo traveler, Hostelworld offers a wide variety of hostels you should take a look at. Alternatively, if you're a budget traveler, sign up for Worldpackers to get FREE accommodation in exchange for work.

☑ Rent a car or an RV: Make your trip more comfortable by renting a car with DiscoverCars.com. This website allows you to compare car rentals around the world. If you're traveling in the United States, find an RV rental on RVshare.

☑ Stay safe: Travel mishaps happen – so, better be safe than sorry by covering your back with travel medical insurance. I would suggest SafetyWing, Genki or Heymondo as they offer the best rates, especially for long-term travelers.

☑ Pack the essentials: Universal charger, check; power bank, check; passport, check! What else could you forget? I've put together this ultimate packing list just for you!

☑ Do you need a visa? If you aren't sure if you need a visa, it’s highly recommended for you to double-check. You can use iVisa - it's super useful and easy to use.

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